The question is, what's bad about sex and money? I mean if that's all it's about for someone... is that so bad? The "bad" to me comes into play when someone is damaging themselves... which is usually related to pimps and addictions, and not at all what I'm speaking of. If someone gets off on being paid (you DON'T?) is that wrong? And what is wrong with a little slam bam thank you ma'am, in the right time and place and for the right person?

Life is about variety and the bottom line is that we are all different. I find the fantasy in my head of streetwalking (minus pimps, crazy people, and drugs!) incredibly hot. Check out the book "Slammerkin," by Emma Donaghue for a description of this girl running around London in the... I think 1800's... being pushed up against walls all over the place.. OMG... to me, so erotic!

Unfortunately, I can't find a way to make it safe and live out my fantasy. But I will still *think* about it.

To me anything between two consenting adults is fine. Whether or not it is fine for ME is another issue. :)

BTW there is a fetish in England right now called "Dogging." I wonder if you google it if you'll find out what it is... goes back to that whole car thing. :)

You're quite a cutie!

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Tamara

Try telling that to the British. "Dogging" is big time here. It's when couples, groups even singles troll parks in their cars and sex out doors...it's not just parks it could be any designated spot that's know by those looking for it....and the internet helps. Dogging sites are also quite popular...you see it's not just street prostitutes and their johns.

Oh, I so very much agree!!! Absolutely nothing wrong with two people sexually enjoying themselves, but PRIVATELY is the way to do it. I myself have a problem with them doing it in the streets, in the public parks, near schools, etc. And, come on, just how good could the sex be while watching if somebody is ready to swoop down and arrest you? Then again, maybe that is the thrill for some of those who do it. Keep it discreet and quiet, private and intimate, in either a hotel room, your home or his home, and the cops should go about thier business of real crimefighting and leave two consenting adults alone to share themselves intimately, however they want to.

Street Prostitution, Good or Bad?

I saw the notice about the 'Video Vigilante' so I thought that I'd like to share my opinions and see what others think. I whole heartedly support prostitution but I do believe that there is a place for it and that place isn't on our streets.

I don't think that there is any more special service that can be offered to another person than pleasure. Most outside of the profession think that it's all about sex and money. Those same people usually think of anything sexual between unmarried people as being dirty. They have no idea how much caring, compassion and nurturing goes into providing intimacy. A good provider offers herself as a companion which is far more than just a sex toy. I have no respect or regard for those people who cheapen the profession by standing on street corners. They are the main reason that so many have such a low opinion of sexwork. THEY are the ones that always get seen! A good professional is very discreet for everyone's protection.

OK... I'm sure there's those who disagree with me so I hope I get some interesting comments. The bottom line is that I just believe that sex should be kept a private thing for adults to enjoy. It shouldn't be out on a street, in a back alley or in a parked car somewhere.