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The Holy Cow and other Adventures at the SF Bondage Fair
Well I didn't see any of you at the Folsom Street Fair. But it is no wonder. I am still decompressing from this crazy fun event. Cameras, cameras everywhere. And why not? An insane mix of freak and bondage folk all expressing themselves to the fullest. My girlfriend Zoe and I dressed like dirty martini's and I guess the concept was so unique that we ended up on the front of the SF Cronicle. How exciting is that? Out of thousands of attendees, there I am with my pink parasol and my silly sweet grin and flaming hair right there on the front page.
We spent a good deal of time at a little club with a backyard patio called The Holy Cow. My boots were killing my poor little toes. I could have used a foot massage, but eventually I knew I would have to run with the girls to catch a cab.
If any of you ever want to have the freakiest and most fun time in San Francisco ever. You have to come out for this incredible showcase of bondage gear and freaky, loving people. It's all about freedom babes. You can't get away with all this free expression anywhere else in the world.
Next year I expect to see you all there. The last Sunday of September.
Website: http://www.sfgate.com/cgi-bin/article.cgi?f=/
 
Welcome to Summer! Courtesan vs Escort
I have been away from blogging here for quite some time. Hate to admit I forgot my password and finally found it among old e-mails.
I was reading in my local review site a thread about the difference between an escort and a courtesan. It was interesting to see the opinions of men vs. woman on the subject.
From this Woman's Perspective
I love the sound of the word courtesan. It has an allure of a time past with a certain depth and mystery like the tea houses of Victorian times or the Parlors of France where men and woman cavorted as equals.
Today as in times past, I think a courtesan is a woman who wants to spend more time with her special friends, albeit clients yes. There is a expectation of the ease of a few hours, a day or weekend spent in one another's company. Topics of conversation would cover more than just what happens on a mattress. Possibly politics, economics, history, culture, music and more. The fact that sex would be included was just a part of the entire package.
An escort is simply a business arrangement. An agreement to be at a particular place at a particular time in an anonymous and one time meeting for a little fun and more than likely sex. Maybe the experience would progress into a more courtesan arrangement. It happens sometimes.
From the Men's Perspective (as I interpret it.)
Just a little synopsis from the rb thread.
First male responder didn't see a difference but performance was what counted. Did he mean sexual performance? Probably.
Second male responder thought that a courtesan was just an old escort. mmmmm Guess I am an old escort.
Third thought the difference was the "by the hour" arrangement of the escort.
Fourth responder just thought that courtesan was a word escorts used to charge more and where "stuck up".
I like to think that an experience with any escort has the potential to be indeed a courtesan-like fantasy. Not always something men and women desire. For them the quick and honest anonymity of the "buy the hour" arrangement is fine. Even with the short time many men these days can arrange, the courtesan should not be far away. Ready to pop out and change the flavor of the moment to a more complete courtesan friendship.
Website: http://forum.myredbook.com/dcforum2/DCForumID
RIP OFF ARTISTS
This post is a warning to providers. This guy got a complete service from me and then took the money back and ran out. As he was leaving, he went on about what a wonderful time he had. BE CAREFUL. He was a tall, young black guy, a bit on the over-weight side and very dark skin, short spikey kinky hair. The whole baggie pant and gold medallion thing going on. Here is his number 408-569-9828.
Now I know that this is not the ideal as far as hobbyists go. But he was extremely polite, a bit slow maybe. I try to be flexible as far as age and race. It this business, it probably is far to aggrevating to be. I do feel a bit foolish for 2 reasons. First, the age (27)and type of business (tow truck driver NOT) just didn't fit the profile I follow. Should have gone with my rules and followed my gut not to see anyone that isn't intellegent and accomplished in someway. Now see there I go. It isn't my fault. There are preditors out there and they select the givers for their prey.
I was not injured and it was more my time and energy taken that makes me upset. It was mean spirited as well. I don't like to have that as a life memory.
Website: http://www.msandreastorm.com
Anyone for Opera?
Now this is for me. Looking for someone who really loves opera and is willing to escort me to the entire fall-winter season here in San Jose. I am looking for someone who WANTS to go. So no game playing here. I will kick you around the block if you don't like opera and try an angle on me. I am looking for the tickets. TICKETS? ANYONE GOT SEASON TICKETS?
Website: http://www.operasj.org/home0607.html
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