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Drama Queens
Sorry I haven't been blogging like I should but things were kind of hectic here for a bit. This blog is going to be my bitch fit chance to vent about it. LOL
What the hell draws so many drama queens to the massage industry? I've never been in the escort business so I have no idea if there's as many DQ's there but they run rampant in massage!!! I know this because I have owned three massage shops for the last 9 years and worked side by side with them. I have tried to give everyone with a massage license a fair chance to work with us. I say 'us' because I think of us as a 'sisterhood' because we all need to look out for each other. If somebody is a DQ it makes work miserable and that makes it hard for us to be at our best.
Massage itself is supposed to be a very relaxing and healing experience... whether 'therapeutic' or sexual. It should be no big stretch to think that the people offering that kind of experience should be calmer or more down to earth people who enjoy nurturing. Instead, massage has attracted countless neurotics, psychotics, maniacs, manic depressants and schitzoids who think they're just there to turn tricks and dump all of their problems on everyone around them... and boy do they have problems! When you can weed through the lies/fantasy that they are spinning you find that they're just products of their own neuroses and poor judgment. They have pissed an moaned their way through life expecting everyone to listen to their pitiful stories and then help them with their pathetic situations.
OK, you're probably thinking, "Wow, what a cold hearted bitch!" but hear me out. My childhood wasn't wonderful and I've been through divorces and other problems. I've raised two girls as a single parent for awhile. (On my own, no help from family or welfare.) I don't think anybody gets through life without some hardships and tears. Yes, some get more than their share but I believe that old saying, "That which doesn't kill me makes me stronger." Pissing and moaning and expecting others to fix your life for you does nothing but prolong your sorry state of affairs.
Fortunately, here in Arizona we've gone to state licensing and upped the requirements to get it. I'm hoping that having to actually go to school and take anatomy, physiology, etc. and be responsible for a change will weed out a lot of the DQ losers. What a wonderful thought :o)
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