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I hope that Santa was very good to everyone.
I spent Christmas Eve, Christmas Day and the day after Christmas lounging, loafing, sleeping and being just plain lazy! (My gift to myself ;o)
I hope that everyone was able to spend it with family, friends or a 'special someone' to make it all that it should be. For those who were away from us this holiday season... God bless you, keep you and bring you home safe :o)
To everyone, I wish you the love of family and good friends, prosperity to share with them and good health to enjoy it all for many years to come...
HAPPY NEW YEAR!
 
Don't Be Afraid...
Your secret is safe with me. I'll never tell anybody how much you love us fat girls ;o)
I've been a BIG girl for a very long time and never in that time have I ever had trouble attracting men. When I was young I spent a lot of time and effort trying to keep my weight down. Why? Because our society has always dictated what is good and bad and it always made it clear that fat was very bad. I never really understood why because I thought that we were supposed to be individuals. Apparently we're all supposed to be thinner individuals. LOL
The internet has been an eye opener. I never realized how many men in the WORLD are 'FA's' (Fat Admirers/Chubby Chasers). It's like belonging to a secret society! LOL I'm hoping that now that everyone can see that they're not the only ones who love us fat girls you guys will get over the need to hide your passion for us. I can't begin to count how many men with the drop dead gorgeous 'trophy wives' come to us and adore our fat. When asked why they have skinny wives those same men will say that it's just 'easier'. They don't want to chance ridicule or maybe lose that big promotion because the boss doesn't like fat ladies. Here's a clue.... your boss may be one of our clients! LOL
All I'm really saying is that it shouldn't be a big deal if someone prefers their women round. It's no different than liking flat women, tall women, blonde women, etc. It's just a personal attraction that everyone SHOULD be entitled to enjoy freely... without any pursecution. But, until it does become no big deal, I'll just keep enjoying you fat lovers and promise to keep your secret safe ;o)
Website: http://www.brandysmassage.com
Street Prostitution, Good or Bad?
I saw the notice about the 'Video Vigilante' so I thought that I'd like to share my opinions and see what others think. I whole heartedly support prostitution but I do believe that there is a place for it and that place isn't on our streets.
I don't think that there is any more special service that can be offered to another person than pleasure. Most outside of the profession think that it's all about sex and money. Those same people usually think of anything sexual between unmarried people as being dirty. They have no idea how much caring, compassion and nurturing goes into providing intimacy. A good provider offers herself as a companion which is far more than just a sex toy. I have no respect or regard for those people who cheapen the profession by standing on street corners. They are the main reason that so many have such a low opinion of sexwork. THEY are the ones that always get seen! A good professional is very discreet for everyone's protection.
OK... I'm sure there's those who disagree with me so I hope I get some interesting comments. The bottom line is that I just believe that sex should be kept a private thing for adults to enjoy. It shouldn't be out on a street, in a back alley or in a parked car somewhere.
Drama Queens
Sorry I haven't been blogging like I should but things were kind of hectic here for a bit. This blog is going to be my bitch fit chance to vent about it. LOL
What the hell draws so many drama queens to the massage industry? I've never been in the escort business so I have no idea if there's as many DQ's there but they run rampant in massage!!! I know this because I have owned three massage shops for the last 9 years and worked side by side with them. I have tried to give everyone with a massage license a fair chance to work with us. I say 'us' because I think of us as a 'sisterhood' because we all need to look out for each other. If somebody is a DQ it makes work miserable and that makes it hard for us to be at our best.
Massage itself is supposed to be a very relaxing and healing experience... whether 'therapeutic' or sexual. It should be no big stretch to think that the people offering that kind of experience should be calmer or more down to earth people who enjoy nurturing. Instead, massage has attracted countless neurotics, psychotics, maniacs, manic depressants and schitzoids who think they're just there to turn tricks and dump all of their problems on everyone around them... and boy do they have problems! When you can weed through the lies/fantasy that they are spinning you find that they're just products of their own neuroses and poor judgment. They have pissed an moaned their way through life expecting everyone to listen to their pitiful stories and then help them with their pathetic situations.
OK, you're probably thinking, "Wow, what a cold hearted bitch!" but hear me out. My childhood wasn't wonderful and I've been through divorces and other problems. I've raised two girls as a single parent for awhile. (On my own, no help from family or welfare.) I don't think anybody gets through life without some hardships and tears. Yes, some get more than their share but I believe that old saying, "That which doesn't kill me makes me stronger." Pissing and moaning and expecting others to fix your life for you does nothing but prolong your sorry state of affairs.
Fortunately, here in Arizona we've gone to state licensing and upped the requirements to get it. I'm hoping that having to actually go to school and take anatomy, physiology, etc. and be responsible for a change will weed out a lot of the DQ losers. What a wonderful thought :o)
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