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The Big Picture In Life
My post today is actually inspired by several recent posts, including Tori in Atlanta, Ciara and Lea of Baltimore. So as I write this on Easter, I think we need to take a minute and look at the big picture, called Life.
Tori posted a blog on April 12 about an escort in Atlanta who had run into some problems and started giving out false referrals. Ciara, what can I say, she is always looking out for her friends. Even when she may not agree, she is a good friend to have. Today Lea posted about "letting go and forgiving."
Tori is right, the escort who gave out false referrals will cause everyone in this profession, escorts and clients to pay a price for her actions.
Today I am posting about the big picture, what is important in life and not worrying about the little stuff. Making a difference in someone's life.
I remember many years ago, long before I even thought about this profession, watching a movie about a lady who was a school teacher by day, and an escort by night. The lady worked with men in all walks of life, all fetishes, until one day she was called to meet a lady who wanted to bring her home for her husband.
The wife and the escort talked about how brave the escort must have been choosing such a high risk profession. When they arrived at the couples home, the husband was dying, he had a terminal disease. The escort told the couple that she was not the brave one, the wife was the brave one for going to great lengths to make sure the husband needs and wants were fulfilled.
This movie always stuck with me. This week I was talking with a guy I know who was told three weeks ago he would not make it and today he is feeling great. He beat the odds. He told me that all the little stuff in life really does not matter when you are in ICU and told you will not make it.
You can make a great impact in ones life, really connect and may never realize how much you touched someone. For example, Mr. Fisher is one who has touched me with his comments more times than he will ever realize. I don't know him personally, never met him, would not know him if he walked up to me tomorrow. But his genuine, sincere comments to me and most of the bloggers here are greatly appreciated.
I know there are many disputes in life, in business and even between escorts. Sometimes they are between two escorts, sometimes between escorts and their clients. Disputes between escorts allow our profession to show signs of weakness. This weakness leads to cracks in our protective shell and eventually allows those who we try to protect ourselves from to penetrate and cause us damage.
For example, if you have two swing clubs down the street from each other. If they can't agree, and call the city or county to tell on the other, they will ultimately bring down government restrictions or worse on both of them. I guess that is where the saying " don't cut off your nose to spite your face" comes from.
So next time you decide to pick a fight with another escort, client, webmaster, etc, talk to each other, don't fight your battle in the media or the courts. The repercussions might be more than we all asked for.
I hope no one takes offense to my post, but I felt this needed to be said. Don't underestimate the power of the web and those who read it.
Julie
Website: http://www.juliewild.com
Jason, loser of the year, does not even know who he is e mailing.
I try to keep my posts upbeat and pleasant, but today calls for a mean spirited e mail. No, I am not in a bad mood at all. Starting last week, I seem to have this guy who is e mailing me from his cell phone. He must not be all there. He is e mailing Julia????? So either he does not know how to spell Julie, or he is e mailing a lady named Julia with rude and crude comments.
Now for his sake, I hope he is not trying to reach Julia in Atlanta. She will set him straight.
This guy is at 937-684-2379. In case you would like to be abused, talked to like trash, and basically humiliated, feel free to call him.
It started out last week with a simple e mail,
I'm in a great need of advice on how to get my old girlfriend back into my life
Then followed up by
Hi my name is jason i never had a girlfriend before i was wondering if you can help get one
Ok, so either he can't remember what he sent me the day before, or he is just a liar.
This was followed up by,
I want to F*** you.
I replied, I don't think so.
He sent more, I simply replied, please don't e mail again.
Today, he sent this,
Hey julia i would like to put my cock in your ass and fuck it all night long
So this time, I sent him a simple, warning, stop the e mails.
What would your next step be, simply block his e mail address, report him to the FCC since he is sending these messages thorugh a telephone, contact the FBI, since he is making threats or post his number on a gay web site stating that he is looking to give and receive bareback, anal sex.
Now if any of you ladies have time on your hands and would like to help me, feel free to call Jason and let him know that he is officially banned from the hobby. Seriously, if you would like to help me out and teach this guy to start treating ladies like ladies, please leave Mr. Jason a message.
Sorry if this post seems mean spirited, but I have warned this guy enough times and simply blocking his e mials is not enough.
If you decide to call him, please post your comments on this blog. I think this would be a fun way to stop this guy from being so crude and threatening the ladies.
Julie
Website: http://www.juliewild.com
A Beautiful Evening - A Weekend To Rest
After a fun filled week, I planned some down time this weekend. The weather is going to be great here in Atlanta and spring is in the air. A client who I do not see often, maybe once a year e mailed to say he was coming to town and just wanted some "Julie Time."
I explained that I would not be available this weekend, I had a busy week, I want to just stay at home and rest. He is from out of town and wanted to see me when he arrived. After a little sweet talk, I agreed to meet him last night. Most of my clients see me in my studio or their home/office/motel room. This client wanted to spend time with me, just relaxing and talking. He loves to talk to me.
He flew in yesterday afternoon, reserved a room at an upscale hotel. He asked that I be waiting in the bar for him, dressed to seduce. I would never offer this to a new client, but for a regular client, I will do most anything. I went to the hotel, parked, walked into the bar and ordered a glass of wine. As I was waiting for my client, I could not help notice so many nice looking well dressed businessmen who looked lonely and lost.
They looked at me with passion and lust, I looked at them as potential clients. Several men came up and made small talk. I guess I am a talker because they seemed surprised at how easy it was to talk to me. Several men introduced themselves, even told me what they do, I wanted to return the favor and give them my business card and tell them what I do, but I was afraid of being thrown out for soliciting inside the hotel, since the sign on the door clearly stated, no soliciting.
My client arrived, we enjoyed a drink, appetizers and great conversation. Afterwards we went up to his hotel room for some quiet time together. His suite had the most incredible oversized garden tub with jets. We sat together in the tub for over an hour, when we got out, our skin looked like a prune.
I am not sure if it was the wine, the hot water or the romantic mood, but my client could not keep his eyes open. So I tucked him in bed around 1 am and headed home. What a way to end my week.
Julie
Website: http://www.juliewild.com
Busy Day Today
I had a client schedule for today, but due to his work, he needed to reschedule. So I thought I would have the day off to rest. Guess again. I have a three hour appointment scheduled at 2 pm.
For those who follow my blog, I am not into reviews or review boards. I have read Kelly Shannon's blog and others who feel the same way. Julia in Atlanta and I agree, if a man calls and says he is a hobbyist who is well known on the review boards, we won't see him.
My client this morning e mailed and offered a simple way to verify / screen and we scheduled an appointment. I asked him how he found me and he said he was surfing the web and found Escort Blogs. I asked him if he reads or posts on the two main review sites. He had never heard of TER or TBD.
Imagine that, an innocent client. One that has not been jaded by the trash posted on the review boards. He is looking for a lady who can fill the voids in his life. I hope to be that lady.
I need to hurry and run my errands, buy a newspaper and grocery shop at Publix..
Julie
Website: http://www.juliewild.com
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